My friend Carol, whom I’ve known since she was younger than I currently am (going on 17 years now–do the math) is about to become a grandmother. Her daughter’s baby shower was this afternoon. I knew it was going to be a good one when Carol announced, “We’re not playing any games. We’re going to eat. Open presents. And then leave.” I actually had a nice time despite not knowing anyone there and I arrived home in a timely manner.